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Alternatives to Dating Apps for Meeting People

Dating apps are one way to meet people, not the only one. Shared activities give you something to talk about before you've even said hello.

Why activities work

When you are both doing something, such as running, climbing or playing a board game, the pressure of a face-to-face interview disappears. You learn how someone behaves, not just how they present themselves.

Where to start

Look for groups that suit your interests and that welcome newcomers.

  • Social run and walking clubs
  • Climbing, padel and five-a-side sessions
  • Creative classes, such as pottery and life drawing
  • Quiz nights, games nights and comedy clubs
  • Volunteering projects

Keep it friendly and low pressure

Go for the activity first. If you click with someone, suggest a coffee afterwards. Treating meet-ups as a way to widen your social circle, rather than a hunt for a date, makes you more relaxed and more likely to meet people you genuinely like.